Shopping, Designer Clothes and Shoes. The X Chromosome Revealed

What is it with you ladies in regards to shopping, clothes, and shoes? We all shop, need clothes, and wear shoes. But women seem to carry it on with almost obsessive behavior. You never hear of a guy being called a shopoholic, do you? A guy has his wardrobe, some slacks, shirts, a suit or [...]

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Is My Planet In Alignment – Astrological Dating

Gotta love this notion. It’s been around for ages. But is it really true? Does the moon rising in Capricorn really dictate the right person for you? Apparently many think so. I was born in late March making me an Aries. According to the Zodiac, Gemini’s and Leo’s would be harmonious while Cancer’s and Capricorn’s [...]

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Born Again Virgins – Dating After 40

You’ve survived your 20’s, filled with conquests and prizes, completed your 30’s with the notions of true love and soul mate, had your midlife crisis in your early 40’s , and guess what, now you’re a born again virgin. You have the mindset of the aforementioned ages, with a body, if not well preserved from [...]

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Dating And The Holidays

I fully admit to panic over new girlfriends and the Holidays!  When I was in my early 40’s, I met this beautiful girl just before Christmas. We just started dating in mid December, and already I was beset with the anxiety of Christmas, and meeting her parents for Christmas dinner, then would come New Years [...]

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First Date – First Kiss

So you’ve come to the end of that first date. It went fantastic you think. In your mind you go through the signs that she is attracted to you. She laughed, she talked, witty banter flew across the dinner table. You said the right things. You “passed” the test! You know she is attracted to [...]

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Having The Gift Of The Gab

So how many times have you seen that perfect 10 and got tongue-tied? Where you freeze up or there is a short circuit from your brain to your vocal chords. It’s happened to all of us at one time or another, I suppose. Blessed are those who know how to mingle with strangers. I wasn’t [...]

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Am I Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places

I don’t think I am. But I do question my myself. First , let me define love as I perceive it, not the Merriam-Webster unabridged version of the word, nor that of dictionary.com! I think we all have our own private, inner definition of the word. I love lobster but I wouldn’t want to date [...]

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Dating The Corporate Female

Tried this once. Never again, Nada, No way! Incompatibility issues, irreconcilable differences. While I’m happy that women now have the ability to climb the corporate ladder by virtue of their merits, and have advanced in social and financial endeavors, they seem to have lost some of their femininity.
 

You know the type, pantsuits, tied back hair, [...]

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You’ve Come A Long Way, Baby!

I feel the female psyche today is essentially no different than it was decades ago. While men still like to play the role of protector/hero, women still want love, caring, and respect. Not to be considered as just a piece of human flesh for the larder. While women today have it easier than their predecessors [...]

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The Law Of Attraction

While my education was primarily business oriented, I did minor in psychology. To me they went hand in hand. It also works in the law of attraction between a man and a woman. There is a definite psychology process there. If we all saw things the same way, we’ld all be “hooked up”. But we [...]

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