CAUGHT, Hook, Line and Sinker

Have you ever gotten caught by your partner doing something morally wrong. I mean CAUGHT, hook, line and sinker? I hope not, but with relationships as fragile as they are, it has become increasingly clear that the moral fibers that one bound these relationships, has deteriorated by a large degree. We live in a society [...]

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The Gift is in the Giving

Alright, it is November a month to go before Christmas. Now starts the shopping for gifts anxieties to rear its ugly head. A time when couples try to figure out the right gifts to give one another. Whether male or female, you want to give that special someone, something that they will use, like, and [...]

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Black (and Blue) Friday

I just got a call from my girlfriend. She had been waiting outside on a line, along with what she described as a block long procession of people, at a popular store. She has been there since 6:30 in the morning! Why, you ask? Because today is Black Friday, the day normally sane people leave [...]

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Silence is Golden

While in a relationship, aren’t there times when you just wish to hear NOTHING! Just some peace and quiet is all you desire. Desire it may be, but ever try to get that in a relationship? Pretty near impossible! With me, the chances of that happening are less than slim to none. My girlfriend is [...]

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The way to a mans heart

It is said that an excellent way for a woman to please her guy is through a good, home cooked meal. I happen to agree with that statement! I’m attracted to her for her looks, her mind, and her culinary expertise in the kitchen. I mean that sincerely. I happen to be an excellent chef [...]

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Pet Names for Humans

I HATE PET NAMES !!! No, not the stupid ones given to foo foo dogs. They are bad enough! It’s the ones given in a relationship as a term of endearment. I don’t like giving them nor do I like being called them! I can barely handle being called honey or dear or sweetie, let [...]

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What’s Wrong With Just Looking

Bruce Springsteen said it best in his song “You can look but you better not touch”. Although by far, men are more visually hardwired than that of women, both genders LOOK at other people. I feel that there is nothing wrong with that, as long as that is where it ends…just looking! How many times [...]

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When You Lose Trust

This is a hard one! Trust is a very important if not most important part of a relationship, and if lost, can easily cause its demise. In relationships, trust is the cornerstone. You can compromise with much, but when you lose that all important trust in your partner, there is very little that can be [...]

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Should Couples Try to Change the Other

My answer is NO, Nada, Absolutely NOT. But it seems to be human nature to try to do so! Women loooove to “try” to change their guy into their own image of perfection. Face it, all ye womenfolk out there, admit it! Your sole or soul mission in a relationship, is to try to change [...]

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Trust Your Guts

 
We all listen to and monitor our innards for that feeling of well being. You know when you feel hungry through stomach noises, sleepy through trying to keep your eyes open. So why not your gut feeling!
I am a firm believer in trusting my gut feeling. I think everyone should. Sure, logic or illogic causes [...]

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