As quickly as it became known to my friends that I was approaching being single…again, the first thing said from girl friends, was awww, so sorry to hear that, followed by get some new threads and git back in the saddle. Why do I need more clothes? It doesn’t state who I am, nor does it make me a better man! Hell, I already have spent over $3000 in clothes which were purchased in 2008 alone, most of which I purchased through the pestering of my now ex girl, and of which 80% I still have not worn yet! I’m not a woman, I have no need for the latest fashions, or what’s trendy, at the moment, nor do I relate to retail therapy. I really couldn’t care less. Give me a couple of suits for work, a few pair of slacks, some shirts, and my sneakers, and I’m a happy camper. I certainly do not need more to make me feel better. I feel fine!
I’m not going to be judged by a female or anybody for my dress attire! I don’t believe that clothes make the man, but the other way around, a man makes the clothes! Take me as I am, or I won’t last long. Although I am chivalrous, I refuse to be some damsel’s knight in shining Armani !
stand strong my friend! i could not agree more with you! be who you are, if that isn’t enough to impress the woman then why would you want to fool her into thinking you are someone you are not wearing an Armani suit! actually, i bought an Versace sweater/leather thing a while back, years ago, and have not worn it ONCE since. and why? because i do NOT want to be judged by the clothes i wear. id rather wear a polo with no tag on it and be noticed for me being me rather than me trying to be Versace ~