Take me as I am

As an individual with a unique perspective, I have noticed one particular thing reading profiles on online dating sites. Most everyone wants to start a relationship, be it a fling or long term relationship. But, the one thing that stands out in many profiles is the statement
“I want to be me, take me as I [...]

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Retail Therapy

Some women may call it therapy, some may call it addiction, but it is nothing more than them being outright shop-a-holics! While it is true that they feel somewhat relaxed (therapy) or get a high (addiction) from it, that is just plain old rationalization.
What I can not fathom, for the life of me, is why [...]

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Going Outside of Yourself

I would like to believe that, in a normal, healthy relationship, that both partners would go outside of themselves, forego their personal safety net. It is called love, a simple 4 letter word to which countless literature has been written, spanning eternity!
It is that feeling one gets in a relationship when the happiness or serenity [...]

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Is Being Single So Bad?

I guess that depends on the individual. Many women think so. Part of that biological clock syndrome, I suppose. I believe it is less of a priority for men than for women. I know it is for me!
When I’m in a relationship, regardless of how it is progressing, I feel a underlying need for my [...]

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Truth and Online Photos

A picture may be worth a thousand words but in the case of online dating quite often it pays to be deaf! The majority of people who place profiles on the various dating sites found on the Internet are honest, and have the best of intentions, however there are those that try to try to [...]

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Relationship Self Sabotage

Is self sabotage in a relationship a conscious or unconscious decision? I truly wonder, as many friends I have spoken to, both male and female, and including myself seem to feel that. Could it simply be that there is something about the person or nature of the relationship that we don’t like, and so we [...]

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Eating Alone – Woman Attractor

Why is it both guys and girls always look for each other while maintaining a wolf pack mentality? The answer is, it is safer!
Safer, maybe, but your chances of meeting are reduced by a factor of who you are with. Women are notorious for traveling with an entourage. Remember this fact ladies, men are visually [...]

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The Buy-sexual Girlfriend

The new girl that I am seeing turns out to be what is termed buy-sexual! Until recently, I had never heard such a term coined. But she is definitely one!
It started early in our relationship. We had a few dates but had not had sex yet. We decided to go to the mall to do [...]

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Lush-ous Women

Last night was boys night out. It is our gathering of only male friends, both married and single, who get together once a month for socializing, womanizing, and getting snookered! What we noticed was that women do the same thing. Not surprising though! What was funny was the way intoxicated women acted in public!
At [...]

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Closet Shopping

This article is written for all of you women who constantly complain that they can not find a thing to wear. I believe that it is not that you don’t have clothes, or accessories, or enough shoes to wear, but just a desire to shop and buy MORE! You may call it retail therapy but [...]

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