No, I have not found her as of yet, that is just the title, but I have dated enough women to become fully aware of one thing. Women like to argue with their men!
They say that they are just venting. Maybe that is how they feel inside, but when you hear the tone of their voice when doing so, it comes off loud and firm!
Ok, women like to vent and men try solve problems. But in an argument, with both sides trying to win their case, women many times bow out, not gracefully, and not to give in, but to end it quickly. They won’t agree with you, but they will always think that they are right. Even when they are wrong, they are right! At least to them.
To all you guys out there, beginning a relationship or in one, or for those contemplating marriage, remember these words:
When you say, “I found Miss Right” be sure her first name isn’t Always!
Hi!! See, I randomly came across with your blog, and I started reading it, since the beginning. And I love it. It’s good sometimes to have a voice of expertise here from once in a while.
i don’t think that is fair. sure women like to argue/vent, but suggesting that isn’t productive to our problem solving agenda isn’t necessarily true. and men like to let argue too. if you don’t believe me talk, i mean, get yelled at by my ex.
it is a natural human dynamic to avoid pain/seek pleasure. although it seems like arguing may seem “painful” it is often a gauge to see if you care. to see if we are fighting for the same things.
Those of us that have been around know that Miss Right doesn’t exist. It doesn’t matter how nice “she” is, she will possess certain attributes that are common to all women.
What I find is that the difference between a good relationship and a bad one is how far she is willing to push her view of righteousness.
Women will tell you that they are just venting, however if they are venting your way and you choose to assume there is no action required after their vent…you are stupid.
I have only seen a woman bow out of an argument so she can regurgitate it at a later date, when you least expect it and when you are least prepared.
I am presently with a woman that is the “most right” as far as a partner than any other I have ever met. I don’t think that I will find another that causes me less stress. I was never looking for perfect, I was looking for ongoing, sustainable companionship with as little stress as possible. That’s what I found.
Wish me luck! as I do for you kind Sir!