Jealousy – Battling the Green Eyed Monster

Have you ever been caught up in a situation where jealousy, that green eyed monster rears its ugly head? Most people unfortunately have experienced this at some time in their lives. And no one relishes being in such a position, or as the recipient. Jealousy is not necessarily a female concept. It rears its head [...]

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Remembering Those Important Dates

Does anyone else have trouble remembering important dates? Not necessarily the dates of holidays, but those that take place within relationships. Personally, I have trouble with both! It’s not that I try NOT to remember, I simply don’t always remember! And I always pay for it in the end.
Take the time I forgot my girlfriends [...]

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Kept Women

Do all women like to “kept” ?
Some may say yes, some may retort, Absolutely NOT!
But how do guys perceive of this notion? Most guys are not amenable to “open relationships”. We want our women to be monogamous, although from time to time we stray from that path. So we like the concept of the kept [...]

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Know when to Holdem, Know when to Foldem

Yes, the title is from Kenny Rogers song, The Gambler, yet it seems quite apropos when ascertaining whether or not a relationship is viable. Remember, relationships are a major gamble.
Know when to holdem
Know when to foldem
Know when to walk away
Know when to run!
A perfect lyric when in a relationship! It gives four possible scenarios. Know [...]

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Going Outside of Yourself

I would like to believe that, in a normal, healthy relationship, that both partners would go outside of themselves, forego their personal safety net. It is called love, a simple 4 letter word to which countless literature has been written, spanning eternity!
It is that feeling one gets in a relationship when the happiness or serenity [...]

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Is Being Single So Bad?

I guess that depends on the individual. Many women think so. Part of that biological clock syndrome, I suppose. I believe it is less of a priority for men than for women. I know it is for me!
When I’m in a relationship, regardless of how it is progressing, I feel a underlying need for my [...]

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Relationship Self Sabotage

Is self sabotage in a relationship a conscious or unconscious decision? I truly wonder, as many friends I have spoken to, both male and female, and including myself seem to feel that. Could it simply be that there is something about the person or nature of the relationship that we don’t like, and so we [...]

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Back in the Saddle, again

It is said, that if you fall off a horse, get right back on it, or you become fearful of the horse. I guess the same logic goes for dating.
I’m soon going to become girlfriend(less). Except that this time, there will be no anger, no hurt, no weeks of sorrow. It is but a parting [...]

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Do Clothes Make the Man

As quickly as it became known to my friends that I was approaching being single…again, the first thing said from girl friends, was awww, so sorry to hear that, followed by get some new threads and git back in the saddle. Why do I need more clothes? It doesn’t state who I am, nor does [...]

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Self Fulfilling Prophecy

A few articles ago (see Out with the Old, In with the New), I eluded to the fact that I was possibly looking to break up with my present girlfriend. Well, I made the ultimate blog faux pas… I didn’t sign out. So guess what, she viewed the article! YIKES, the cat is out of [...]

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