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Relationships, by that I mean long term ones are rough. They take time, they take effort, and most of all, they survive and flourish by means of compromise. It can’t be only my way or her way. It doesn’t work if your attitude is my way or the highway. Compromise is the key, and the chemistry must be right. It still comes down to the Law of Attraction. Let’s face it, when you first meet that person, before you know what makes that person tick, you go primal.

 

Sight is the first sense that is used in your determination of that person as a potential. For the most part, men are visually oriented. Maybe we’re just wired that way. I know I am! I’ll remember her body shape with all desired parts from the moment my eyes focus upon her. It is only after that visual acuity is satiated, that I’ll remember the deeper details of her. The real her, the inner beauty that lies within her and which makes her who she is. Women, I believe are more wired to an emotional state. That is probably why they always “test” men to see if they are “worthy” of them

 

 

 

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