Average Joe and Malibu Barbie

The average Joe sees that gorgeous hot body. His mind races, his heartbeat rapidly increases, palms get sweaty. You try feverously to come up with a good opening to a possible dialog. You look at her again, a real goood look. Your eyes follow every curve of her symmetry, mentally noting what you find so [...]

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The 21yo Intern and the 56yo Boss

I hired an intern to work with me about 3 months ago. After interviewing for 2 weeks, I made my decision as to who would be the best candidate. I chose Erica, a 21 year old who, besides being “qualified”, was also quite a hard body. OK, the lech in me came out! Hey, I’m [...]

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Recession And Dating

Is recession killing off the amount of dating people are doing these days. It doesn’t matter if you make a hefty living or just ekes by. It’s all relative. The richer guy, by proxy of that fact, can go out on more dates one would think. True, but he goes to better restaurants, you know, [...]

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A Dating Site is To DATE

Why do so many people join dating sites and just want to be old fashioned pen pals. You know who I mean .. the serial emailed. The guy or girl who will establish contact, and bombard you with countless 1 sentence emails not even worthy of a text message on a cell phone. The ones [...]

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Dream Invasion

Why, or how does she do this to me. It’s been over for many years, so why has she started to invade my dreams? Now? At this point in time? And it’s not just a no sound, black and white old movie going on in my dream. It’s High Definition color with stereophonic surround sound! [...]

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Can Men and Women be Just Friends

I’m certain that for some, it is doable. For me, it hasn’t truly worked since the age of 10. Not that I don’t have female friends, I do, but there is always an underlying feeling of awkwardness (mostly from me) when we are one on one, and not within a group. When I am alone [...]

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Lost Love

Just got a phone call from an ex GF/ex fiancé. She was the love of my life (except when I hated her guts!). It had been 18 years and 1500 miles since we spoke to each other last. For me, absence does not make the heart grow fonder. Instead, it acts like a wound that’s [...]

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Growing Old is Mandatory Growing Up is Optional

We are all getting older. It is a reality we have to accept. We can’t change the effects of time. Sure, we can get facelifts, tummy tucks, botox’d, whatever. So, that being the case, if growing old is mandatory, then growing up should be optional! It is with me, not an option, but a necessity! [...]

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Pack Mentality

We’ve all seen it or experienced it. The pack mentality, especially among girls. Have you ever been in a public place, say a restaurant or bar, and spot a really nice girl. A girl you would love to meet. You smile, she smiles back. You get up and start to approach her. All of a [...]

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Breakup #7 The Fishing Trip

The day started out ok. My girlfriend finally accepted my invitation to go deep sea fishing. I’ve been inviting her for quite awhile but she always had some excuse. While it didn’t always prevent me from going, it would have been nice to go together. I’ve endured art galleries, plays, poetry readings, and dare I [...]

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