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Boys will be boys and so it came as no revelation that Tiger Woods would be given the title of sugar daddy as more and more dirt was published about his relationships. The man has an addiction for the ladies, although married to a beautiful former model.

As it turns out, Tiger apparently paid his bevy of sugar babes a monthly allowance to keep them happy (actually to keep quiet). Hey, it’s like paying a prostitute only they get paid to leave! Tiger is said to have been wiring the babes thousands of dollars in to their banks. Now that is a dumb and traceable move on his part. Tiger, do you know the word DISCRETION? I bet you do now!

Alright, so he is somewhat handsome, he’s internationally known, and if he wasn’t before, he is certainly is now, oh, and he’s mega-rich to boot. So why not a sugar daddy be. I don’t know or care about his married life, but the fact that he is a sugar daddy doesn’t surprise me in the slightest. So what is a sugardaddy but a wealthy, affluent gentleman who gives expensive gifts, monthly allowances, pays the rent, or whatever they mutually agree upon, in return for the sugarbabe to be his eye candy, look good on the arm, and satisfy those male urges.

While I am not condoning his actions as a married man, I am certainly not shocked by it, though most sugar daddies have one babe at a time. I am shocked that discretion is not a word in Tiger’s vocabulary.

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human-atm

When does a guy living a sugar daddy type lifestyle learn to say NO to a pretty young woman? To basically cut her off! I, personally enjoy it, as do many men, but when does the balance become so slanted that it no longer is enjoyable? The whole idea of the sugar daddy lifestyle is to be able to spoil, mentor, and have some nice arm and eye candy. And that is all well and good. But here is my dilemma.

I met this young lady a few weeks ago through an online dating site that embraces that particular lifestyle and all seemed well and good… at the beginning. We met for drinks, found we had chemistry and attraction between us, and were both looking for same thing. It seemed like a perfect match, and for a while it was. We mutually agreed to see each other once every two weeks to go out to fancy restaurants, and high brow cultural events. She is almost 20 years younger than me, but still not a kid by any means. At first, I lavished her with gifts, and I was her Prince Charming, when she needed money, I was her Knight in shining armor, when I took her to Europe, I was an angel, and when I cut her off, I was the scum of the earth!

So why did I cut her off, you ask? It is simple. When everything given freely becomes expected, not appreciated, and when it is never enough, it soon changes the scenario from sugar babe to gold digger. Yes it is a lifestyle definitely not suited for everyone, and it can and does work as an alternative lifestyle, but both parties concerned have to feel they are getting something out of the relationship or what’s the point! May be it was my fault? May be it was both of our fault, but I refuse being treated like an ongoing human ATM.

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Thompson 2008

Much has been written on the subject of older, mature men dating younger women. Putting aside, for the moment, the age gap difference between the genders, both can enjoy the benefits that can arise from such a relationship.

Love transcends all boundaries, so why not see it simply as ageless love. Sure, every senior male would enjoy immensely, that trophy date, that piece of eye candy hanging on to his arm, listening to every word he speaks. He is instantly revitalized, seen by his peers as a stud, the ultimate seducer. He, by proxy of his age, is for the most part, secure emotionally and financially, as well as having a wealth of life experiences ranging from childhood through his induction in to A.A.R.P.!

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If he happens to be an elder gent who has attained affluence during his lifetime, and has the finances and connections to make a younger woman happy, or help her in her career, he is a sugardaddy. That does not make him a lech, or pervert. Not by any means, whatsoever! The sugardaddy type of relationship is one of giving what one has for something he wants. The man has the resources, the means to provide for the younger lady. He can spoil her, wine and dine at the fanciest of restaurants, travel to far off exotic locales. This something every young female would love. Chances are very high that younger guys could never afford to provide such experiences. He may even become her mentor. By mentor, I mean have the ways and means of advancing their careers, with only a modicum of effort.

It is truly a mutually beneficial relationship. One in which everyone wins. The older man feels his oats again, he gets about with her companionship, it boosts his morale. The younger woman gets what she usually can’t get from dating her contemporaries, luxury, excitement, travel, and all the spoils. This is not a novelty, for those in this type of relationship, it is reality!

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